What is that Sweet Spot?

Female orgasms are like an itch. You desperately try to find that sweet spot or you end up removing some layers of skin in the process. It’s persistent, it’s frenzied but, either ways a mind blowing experience. Multiple nerve endings lying in taut anticipation, waiting for what I can only describe as the most beautiful firework display you’ve ever seen or felt.

So, when your eyes slowly draw to a close you see the remnants of what may have been a big dipper.

Oh how I love being a woman!

Let’s play a game. It is called “Put a Finger Down”.

Put a finger down if you overthink and can’t get a good nights sleep.

Put a finger down if you’ve spoken to a lot of people but you feel they still don’t understand you.

Put a finger down if you have it all bottled up and are just winging it.

Put a finger down if I did not just describe what it feels like not knowing what the next step really is.

An acquaintance told me approximately four days ago; Nobody has their life figured out.

Forget the age long tale you’ve been told about getting your sh*t right because, when you do get that right, life loses its meaning, its uniqueness and validity for existence. To put in in simpler terms, you cannot escape the “ups” and “downs” because they are a big part of being alive.

It could be your relationship, your academic goals, the next big job offer or something as simple as getting your life together. Two truths and a lie about my own sweet spot — the perfect relationship, stability and relinquishing control to the divine (God).

So tell me, which is it?

The sweet spot is that Ooh…Aah moment, that feeling of belonging, finding the missing piece of a jigsaw puzzle. It is a power speech that has been sold to all humans and it just keeps us searching for the next idea of MORE. Finding that sweet spot is a lonely journey but here’s a great blog post telling you how to scratch that proverbial itch.

2. You need to believe it: What is the value of nursing a dream you don’t think will come to life. Think manifestations baby…think all that universal mumbo jumbo, think spirituality and what not. Just believe you can do it and you’re good to go.

As a final thought, the beauty of life can also be found in its originality. Yes, the sweet spot is a void you try to fill all your life by trying all sorts of things, be it good or bad, be it great experiences or shallow ones, be it racy adventures or regretful quests.

To my dear reader, all I can do is to encourage you to map it all out. A simple written text here, a well placed affirmation there or, a fervent prayer listing the pros and cons asking God for guidance. Whatever your sweet spot may be, I have no judgements to hand out in this space, just hope that you find clarity to discover the true missing piece in your existence.

Blooming,

Evaysays.

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